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Trust in Yourself Hi All, We all strive for union, but what happens when you have no idea how to get there? What do you do? A huge part of being a twin flame is built on trust, trust in yourself, trust in your twin flame and perhaps trust in a person who is helping you get to union but not all of us trust others so how do you deal with that? To Trust or Not To Trust Trust, there we go with that loaded word that gets thrown around all too often, we use it inappropriately in our everyday lives. Trust is the belief that someone is reliable, honest and good, it is also used in relationships, I trust my partner, wife, husband, boyfriend, girlfriend. I believe the first people we trust in our life are our parents as they are the ones we look to for everything at a young age, this is blind trust, you do not look for flaws in this, it is growing throughout life that makes us as humans untrusting. Can you remember the first times someone broke your trust, I can and it hurt but it also taught me a lesson to trust in someone but not fully, how do you overcome this? You have to learn to trust again, there are many factors to this so do not expect it to happen overnight. I feel that the very first thing you must do is trust in yourself, trust in your decisions, that is half the battle. Learn to Trust Again Forgiveness, in order to move forward from a hurtful situation, you must offer forgiveness, this does not always have to be for the other person but more so for yourself so that you can feel at peace with the situation. Clear open communication, do not lie or hold anything back, show your twin flame that you can talk to them and they can talk to you. As the leader twin flame you have to be a positive example for yours as they look to you to show them the way so if you show trust they will begin to show it too. Please do not allow the sin’s of your ex affect your future with your twin flame, you have to remember that not everyone will treat you how a past lover will. Showing understanding towards your twin flame in the hardest of times will prove your love and trust for them, so instead of attacking, ask questions, find out why something is the way it is before you just jump in. All of this will help you with trusting in your twin flame and working towards a happy future together. If you still feel that you can not trust in your twin flame after all of this, then you will have to begin to face the fact that you may not be able to be in a relationship with them and that is a bitter pill to swallow. Moon Musings Things are beginning to intensify more and more as we move into 2018. The year of relationship energy and an intense 11 year for not just twin flames but for spiritual growth. We’re being asked to pay attention to both the growth of ourselves but of that which who we are most connected with. Our family, close friends, and for those on the twin flame journey yes our beloved. Connected soul to soul many of us have much to do to heighten and work on to get to union. As a twin flame in union I still do work on myself to keep my union and relationship in balance. Yes we have rough moments but we work it out. As I’m sure those in union can tell you it doesn’t end once in union. It’s just different. This week we have the last quarter moon on February 7th and the energy is very intense to say the least, and not necessarily all good. With this last quarter phase as usual we’ll be dealing with internal emotional and spiritual challenges. They are related to our relationships especially intimate ones. If you’re not with your twin flame, and I know many are in separation and some of you are involved with another be it a boyfriend/girlfriend/spouse -it’s going to be one of intensity. You will potentially have many intense dreams trying to sort this situation out from a soul perspective, symbolism is key to make note of as rarely do we dream of the exact situation it tends to come in symbols and synchronicities that you need to look at and the message they’re giving you. There could be possible difficulties with your partner if you are involved with someone - karmic relations especially are highlighted. Whether this is in the actual physical world or you may deal with your issues at another level, nonetheless there are things to be sorted. As it relates to your twin flame, if you’re on the journey, you may find very intense loving and even sexual dreams and thoughts and/or you may find possibly working out some matters that have you in separation and at odds with one another, no one ever said this journey was of all love and light, there will be heartache and pain as this is the only way you will learn. Everybody wants happiness, nobody wants pain, but you can’t have a rainbow without a little rain. ~ Unknown This being said you may also find yourself going to the opposite extreme where all is well and balanced and happy because you have somewhat mastered your emotions, temporarily mind you and you may find that you come from the heart with all you say and do. All I’m saying is be aware to what is going on within you. There is also the potential that your higher self will feel “called” to look at your beliefs and where you are spiritual. That could be anything, we’re all spiritual beings and “spirituality” can be many things for you. Meaning it doesn’t have to be yoga or meditation it could be something like being of service to others and volunteering or spending time reading and learning sacred texts for more knowledge about your life or practicing healing or learning about how to do healing for others and for yourself perhaps energy work or physical healing. Do you know what a Black Moon is and what it means?
As you know there were two full moons in January - yes VERY INTENSE. So that means in February we have none, just a new moon in about a week from now. And so what does the mean? When a month has no full moon in it that is what is called a BLACK MOON. There are 4 reasons for a black moon but in this case it is because of no full moon in February. In energy terms it is actually a very positive thing meaning the energy continues to intensify from the two full moons right up until the next one which is in March. This gives us an open pathway to continue more positive work on changing circumstances in our life, both personally and with our twin flame. Taking advantage of the energy means you can continue to look for signs and signals about the direction to follow, and be sure to ask for clear directions and if you have problems understanding them don’t hesitate to contact me and I can perhaps provide a bit of insight or what it might mean for you at the time. It is a powerful time to work with the energies and tools you have, towards your most heartfelt desires and the intentions you wish to bring to fruition in the physical world, no matter how small. A great time to work with me on perhaps taking your union to another level via some of my services that can provide additional insight or shift your connection to a more positive path between the two of you as well as also working on yourself. Such as related to what is going on with the energy of this last quarter moon phase. I do have services for both twin flames and individuals. Please ask. That is all for this week people, I am super excited for this year ahead and I have it on good authority that this year is going to bring more than a few unions. I know of two such ones already and we are only at the beginning of February, I do things very differently and it works!! If you have not already seen it, I wrote an article revisiting who or what is a twin flame ~ Click here to read that! Useful Links: Contact me at: [email protected] Facebook: www.facebook.com/CarolMary1111/ Twitter: www.twitter.com/CarolMary1111 Instagram: www.instagram.com/reunitingcomesfromwithintwinfl/ YouTube: www.youtube.com/channel/UCQ1xAgZKyLOJ1fNEUtW69bg Pinterest: www.pinterest.com/carolmary11/ Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/reunitingcomesfromwithin/ This is a good year for uniting twin flames and I am very honored to aid you on your road to reunion. “Look inside yourself, become the best version of you, reuniting comes from within.”~ Carol Mary Please do not hesitate to contact me for more help with any of the above or any of my other blogs, I always strive to answer every email, direct message or Facebook inbox. Take a chance, make a change, unite! ~ Carol Mary ©Carol Mary 2018. ©Reuniting comes from within All Rights Reserved. No part of copyrighted material may be used, altered or copied in any way without the express written permission of the copyright owner
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When I first came across the term twin flame, my mind was filled with confusion, so much that I was reading made no real sense to me, words like ascension, divine masculine etc, blew my mind. I had no idea what anyone was talking about, that day I said I was never going to read another person’s explanation of it ever again. Plus I partly did not believe that the symptoms of a twin flame relationship were even true although some did fit for this person I met 6 months before. Up to the point I met him my life was not great, my husband at the time was and still is an alcoholic, who when drinking was the nastiest person you could ever come across. I often fantasized about a man coming to save me. Take me away from this life of hurt that I lead but that was not going to happen really, I had to become strong and save myself, this was one of the first things I learnt as a twin flame. Of course I was not confident in my gifts at that time so I shrugged most of what I was feeling off, I did however go to see a psychic, a man who lived about 25 miles away from my home, I did it for a laugh to be honest because I never really believed in things like that, oh boy how my mind has changed over the past 7 years. I was there with two of my friends and the first thing he said to me was “Your whole life is about to change, you are in for one heck of a ride and also you are not as innocent as you like people to believe you are. He then told me that I was going to met someone in the most unusual place, this person was going to be the next man I was going to marry, my one and only true love. He talked about some other things too that shocked me, like my fear I would not be able to have a baby after a miscarriage. He told me I would always suffer with back pain and to take care of my kidney area and lastly what stands out in my mind is that he said I would never be rich but I would be well known. I fobbed most of it off! Then I look back to my childhood, I was never settled and was always searching for something new, someone I had not met yet. Always kicking myself for not saying something that I felt or saw to another. To be honest up until the 11th July 2010 there was always a missing piece. The 11th of July was the day we first spoke and I knew that he was going to be very important in my life, I felt like we had met before and I started to see my future spread out before me. By this stage my gifts started to intensify, I was seeing more and more as I met people, all these words and things that would happen would start to jump out at me, I could see what I learnt later was their soul, I had dreams so clear I felt it was actually happening to me at the time, so in hindsight meeting my twin flame was a catalyst, so my journey of learning and discovery had begun. Now I am going to impart the information to you that I have not shared with others before…. What and Who is your Twin Flame. Truth Time This has become a very hot topic, everyone wants a slice of the action so much so that there are people claiming they are twin flames when they are not, there is a very mixed perception of what a twin flame is and how you know you have found yours and there is a very common misconception that your twin flame will come into your life and everything will fall into place and be perfect. That is just not true on any level. You will get to that level of perfection that I know as a united twin flame, but it is damn hard work getting to that position and anyone who tells you otherwise is either not a twin flame or has met their soul mate. There are huge differences. In my opinion at the very beginning of your existence, the ones who guide us and our angels were there at our creation, we were made as one soul, this soul was then split in half and you were sent out into the world to make your soul one again and to fulfill a mission that was set forth. Sounds easy to do right? It is important to remember that twin flames were a rarity before, as we did not have the technology back then that we do now. So therefore social media, better travel systems and a total different set of values have brought much more twin flames together!! So they are not as rare as others try to make out they are. The other half of your soul will mirror you, so they will bring every single flaw, emotion, wrongdoing and belief you have ever had to the surface and make you become the best version of yourself whether you like it or not. This person will come into your world and turn it upside down and you will become a person you did not know you could be. When you look into your twin flame's eyes, what do you see? Make a list, because that is what you have to work on. When we look at levels of relationships we will see that twin flames are on the highest level possible, so I often refer to it as the ultimate love. Then soul mates come behind them along with karmic relationships, we will look at all of these later on. We all know that a twin flame can not be a sibling, parent or related to you in any way by blood for want of a better word! They are not always romantic relationships, it is ok to be just friends with your twin flame, carry out your mission and support one another. You will know which type of relationship that you are meant to him with them. When you first meet your twin flame, you will have the feeling that this person is familiar to you, that is of course if this is not the first time you have incarnated together, if that is the case you will mostly just feel an unexplainable connection with them. Many say that they have dreamt about their twin flame, realizing it when they meet them for the first time. The likelihood of it is you will come from different cultures, have totally different beliefs, age gaps are common, different backgrounds and can be the same or the opposite sex, you will however have had similar happenings in your life, like take for instance my twin flame and I, I am older by 3 years, but both of our grandfathers died at the same time, same day in fact, so as you get to know one another these things will become more apparent! Numbers and signs will become very important to you, they will give you messages on how to move forward. Pay close attention to your dreams as you will also be shown the way as your dreams are accessed by you higher self. More often than not you will meet your twin flame when one or both of you were in other relationships and not available. It’s likely that you met when you were not even looking to find someone. It hits you like a bolt out of the blue. One of you will be more awakened than the other, what this means is that you will have a better understanding of who you are to each other. I have discovered that one of you is the leader and the other is the sleeper, the runner and chaser as it is more commonly known. Why I prefer Leader and Sleeper Leader ~ Well it seems to me that when you think about the word chaser, it means to run after or some might even say stalk, that is not truly what we do, we lead, we show our twin flame the way. We do not run after him/her so I felt the word leader was more appropriate here. Sleeper ~ This one is pretty simple, it just means that your twin flame is not awakened yet so he/she is sleeping! This relationship or connection will wax and wane, push and pull and you will experience extreme highs and super lows. No one in your life be that family or friends will understand this and you will be told that you are crazy for pursuing this person, and almost always be told to move on to someone more suitable. You will have an unconditional love for your partner that is unrivaled!! Your partner may also do things that would be a deal breaker with anyone else but somehow you find a way to forgive or understand the reasoning behind this behavior or bad habits. These are all lessons you will learn, this can for sure be a harsh awakening process, with many twists and turns. Ultimately you will have a longing to be with this person no matter what! You will not feel complete without them in your life. Then of course the universe asks you to be independent from them and show how you can live without them and do not need to rely on them, so you would almost need a degree in twin flames to figure out some of what is thrown at you! It is my belief that there are not particular stages to this relationship, like bubble love, ascension, personally I think that is bullshit, that is for people who live in 5d not 3d. One of the main reasons why I want to help others navigate through this journey is because of the ridiculous things I see on the internet. What I do believe however is that there are phases, like when you meet, when you separate, when you search, when you want to give up and when you reunite. So much easier to understand this way. Relationships like this are hard to understand so I hope that I can make is easier for you and of course help you get to union because that along with learning about who we are and who we need to be is the aim, but always remember that reuniting comes from within. Useful Links: Contact me at: [email protected] Facebook: www.facebook.com/CarolMary1111/ Twitter: www.twitter.com/CarolMary1111 Instagram: www.instagram.com/reunitingcomesfromwithintwinfl/ YouTube: www.youtube.com/channel/UCQ1xAgZKyLOJ1fNEUtW69bg Pinterest: www.pinterest.com/carolmary11/ Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/reunitingcomesfromwithin/ This is a good year for uniting twin flames and I am very honored to aid you on your road to reunion. “Look inside yourself, become the best version of you, reuniting comes from within.”~ Carol Mary Please do not hesitate to contact me for more help with any of the above or any of my other blogs, I always strive to answer every email, direct message or Facebook inbox. Take a chance, make a change, unite! ~ Carol Mary ©Carol Mary 2018. ©Reuniting comes from within All Rights Reserved. No part of copyrighted material may be used, altered or copied in any way without the express written permission of the copyright owner |
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